

Registered Clinical Counsellor
Canadian Certified Counsellor
M.A. RCC CCC
In Person & Online
Adult Individual Counselling
BIOGRAPHY
I received my Bachelors degree in Psychology from the University of Ottawa and a Masters degree in Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University. I have also completed a 2-year Somatic Attachment Psychotherapy program. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) in good standing with the BCACC. I am also accredited as a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC) in good standing with the CCPA. I have had the opportunity to work with a wide range of individuals supporting them on their path of healing and self-discovery. Before stepping into my role as a therapist, I worked as an Early Childhood Educator. I saw firsthand how large a role attachment plays both in children and adults. I believe that this has had a large role in my interest in the impact that childhood experiences and attachment wounds have on us. I enjoy spending my spare time at home with family and friends, exercising, listening to my favourite podcasts or cozying up to watch a movie.
PHILOSOPHY
My approach draws from somatic attachment, attachment theory and eye-movement desensitization reprocessing (EMDR). Intertwined throughout is a body-centered, somatic approach. Our past experiences impact us in ways we may not even realize. In our early years, without any explicit thought, our nervous system scans our environment and finds out how to best survive. We develop ways of being in the world that keep us safest. As we grow into adulthood, we may come to find that the very ways we were protected are now preventing us from having full access to our sturdy, adult self. I believe that change occurs when we are able to reorganize our past experience through the eyes of our sturdy self. As we build our capacity to hold what used to be unholdable, we can then process the past experiences, leaving us with more self-understanding, self-compassion and more freedom to choose the path forward instead of it feeling as if it was chosen for us. I work with the autonomic nervous system (ANS) and the right hemisphere (the more emotional, creative side) of the brain to help process these past experiences as this is where they have been stored. What is stored in the body, we want to process through the body. I also believe that what has been damaged in relationship, must be healed through relationships, which is why I prioritize creating a safe space. By creating a safe place, we can then start to work to have opportunity for corrective relational experiences, learning new ways of being in relationships with the self and others. Whether you're looking for support in developing your relationship with yourself, processing past experiences that may feel stuck, improving your relationships, or simply exploring personal growth, I am here to support you. I believe in creating a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your inner and outer world, gain insight into your behaviours or increase your capacity to to navigate life's turbulence. I look forward to connecting.
SPECIALIZATIONS
I work with individuals who want to be supported through their journey of healing and self-discovery. We often feel as though we get in our own way. We know things could be better but aren't quite sure how to get there. I support individuals on their journey of self-improvement, working both somatically and relationally, helping them move through past experiences into more vitality and regulation. Some of the areas I work with include: Self-discovery Self-limiting beliefs (e.g. perfectionism, self-doubt, imposter syndrome) Relational Trauma/Attachment Repair Life Transitions Self Esteem Relational trauma People pleasing Self-compassion Anxiety/Overwhelm
ABOUT SPENCER
My Personal Experience
In Therapy
Through my work in my own therapy, I was able to become aware of what was behind my difficulties and what was holding me back. The implementation body-based practices, reconnection with the self and self-compassion have been imperative for me in my own healing.
